Friend or Foe?

A friend and I were having a conversation last night about real friends and fake friends. I decided to blog about the convo/ topic today. So, last night we were talking about people who play both sides of the fence. In your face, they’re your bff times 10 but then around others they talking mad shit about you. I decided to look in the dictionary to see what the real definition of a "Friend" is? Well, Webster defines a friend as 1. A person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard. 2. A person who is on good terms with another; a person who is not hostile.
Today in my generation people have a totally different definition of a friend. People use the term "friend" too loosely. They say everybody is a friend to them when in reality they aren’t even friends they’re more like an....associate, aquatint and sometimes not even that….Just a familiar face. Friendship is something that has to earned and shouldn’t be taken lightly.

A friend to me is someone you can trust and depend on. Someone that always there through thick and thin. Hell, even someone that you don't speak to or see every day but when you need them they’re there no matter what. Someone who laughs with you and cries with you. Someone who you can tell your secrets to and trust that others won’t find out about it. I have a couple of friends but they are more like sisters/ brothers to me. I fricken love them and I'd do anything for them. Some I’ve known since middle school and some I’ve just met and gotten super close to over the last couple of months. They don’t have to ever worry about me putting their business out in the streets, because I love them and would never do that to THEM! All I know is that I have a great bunch of friends and I love them dearly!